Two and three-year-olds have many skills, but controlling their tempers is not one of them. Temper tantrums are a way for toddlers to show they are becoming independent and letting you know they have their own needs and wants. Take comfort in knowing that tantrums are normal and that most children outgrow them by age 4.
Here are a few tips for dealing with temper tantrums:
1. Remain calm. Don’t show frustration and don’t get angry. Avoid confrontation and have try to keep a relaxed tone. Holding your younger child during a tantrum may make him or her feel more secure and calm down more quickly.
2. Ignore. Some children throw tantrums to try to get their way or to seek attention. Don’t give in. Try ignoring the tantrum, but pay attention to your child after he or she calms down.
3. Quite place. Consider taking your child to a quiet place where he or she can calm down safely.
4. Don’t overreact. Although they can be embarrassing, resist overreacting to tantrums, and try to keep your sense of humor.
5. Praise good behavior. Praise your child when the tantrum stops.
When your child is having a floor-thumping tantrum, the most important thing you can do is remain calm and wait it out. Do not let your child’s behavior cause you to lose control, too.
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